On my last group call we talked about money and finances. We talked about what comes up when I say those words, what feelings showed up in their body, and what emotions surfaced. Then we did a little exercise to identify what common emotions where coming up within the group.

Abandonment was the first emotion that came up. 

What a STRONG feeling.

But how can we relate that to money and finances?

Some beliefs to consider....

If I don't make enough money, they won't love me.

If I don't have enough money, they might leave.

If I do not have money, I am worth nothing.

Some traumas to consider....

A father left when you were younger and mom had to raise you on little money as a single mother. 

Family lost everything during childhood and parents were emotionally unavailable. 

Maybe your family had an abundance of money but no one was ever home because they worked so much. 

Money, poverty, scarcity mindset, abandonment, can all be tied together because of the relation that it had with money and the traumas that came with it. 

This doesn't always have to be lack of money though. This can be too much money that may have made you feel like money was chosen over you. This can also be you as a workaholic choosing money over knowing yourself, abandoning your self and losing yourself in money.

So how do we move through this?

Let me give you a couple ways you can start at home, right now.

Scripture to pray over

Psalm 27:10 – “Though my father and mother forsake me, the Lord will receive me.”

Hebrews 13:5 – “Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, ‘Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.’”

Deuteronomy 31:6 – “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.” 

Here we can use scripture as guidance, as a reminder that God does not leave or abandon us. He stays faithful and true but we need to trust that. We need to lean on that truth. When we feel lost and hopeless in that feeling, turn to the Word and allow yourself to fall apart in Him, so that he can build you back stronger.  

Homeopathy for relief

Homeopathic remedies are wonderful to consider when feelings of abandonment are coming up often. This is a gentle yet effective way to remove the energetic block that the trauma has imprinted on you.  

Pulsatilla 30c or 200c. 

You can find these remedies in any Whole Foods or Natural Grocers. You can also order them on my Fullscript! here! 

Take either of these a couple times a week for 2-4 weeks or in moments where you feel you need additional support. (Not medical advice). After, sit and analyze if you have made any shifts, felt any differences, or even handled things differently emotionally. 

I hope this brings you some relief and HOPE!

Want to know and learn more? This is all part of the support that I give in all of my group calls and 1:1 coaching. We deep dive into emotions, beliefs, feelings, and then we bring you out of it with actionable steps to take. 

If you are curious about my group coaching, take a peak below!

Regulated Healing, Together Group

I just revamped it to be more affordable, including family members, AND access to my current client membership each month. 

All the love and prayers, talk soon.